{"id":52,"date":"2026-01-21T20:58:16","date_gmt":"2026-01-21T19:58:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rorostories.blog\/2026\/01\/21\/kur-heshtja-u-be-gjuha-ime-e-pare\/"},"modified":"2026-01-28T09:35:37","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T08:35:37","slug":"kur-heshtja-u-be-gjuha-ime-e-pare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rorostories.blog\/en\/2026\/01\/21\/kur-heshtja-u-be-gjuha-ime-e-pare\/","title":{"rendered":"Kur heshtja u b\u00eb gjuha ime e par\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Nga nj\u00eb histori familjare, n\u00eb nj\u00eb mision jet\u00ebsor dhe profesional<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kur fati nuk t\u00eb pyet, por t\u00eb zgjedh<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, fati nuk t\u00eb pyet se \u00e7far\u00eb do. Ai thjesht t\u00eb vendos p\u00ebrball\u00eb rrethanave q\u00eb, pa e kuptuar, t\u00eb japin nj\u00eb mision. Dhe kur rritesh, kupton se ai mision nuk ishte kurr\u00eb i p\u00ebrkohsh\u00ebm \u2013 por nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7on drejt nj\u00eb profesioni, nj\u00eb thirrjeje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u00ebshtu ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebr mua raporti me interpretimin dhe Gjuh\u00ebn e Shenjave. Nuk jam gjendur rast\u00ebsisht n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb. Nevoja p\u00ebr komunikim m\u00eb shtyu t\u00eb m\u00ebsoja, t\u00eb punoja dhe t\u00eb kuptoja m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb profesion q\u00eb sot po b\u00ebhet gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nevoj\u00ebs reale q\u00eb ka komuniteti i personave q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nj\u00eb komunitet q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohet<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sipas nj\u00eb studimi t\u00eb kryer nga <strong>INSTAT n\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim me ANAD<\/strong>, komuniteti i personave q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga rreth <strong>39.000 persona<\/strong>, prej t\u00eb cil\u00ebve rreth <strong>5.000 jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb<\/strong>. Ky studim erdhi si domosdoshm\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb identifikuar nga af\u00ebr realitetin, numrin konkret dhe nevojat e k\u00ebtij komuniteti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vet\u00eb ANAD e inicioi k\u00ebt\u00eb proces n\u00eb vazhd\u00ebn e p\u00ebrpjekjeve p\u00ebr njohjen dhe zyrtarizimin e Gjuh\u00ebs s\u00eb Shenjave, si dhe p\u00ebr garantimin e nj\u00eb statusi specifik p\u00ebr personat me aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. P\u00ebrtej shifrave, ky studim i dha z\u00eb nj\u00eb realiteti q\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb kishte mbetur n\u00eb heshtje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Historia ime nuk nis me shifra, por me familjen<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebr mua, kjo histori nuk fillon me statistika. Fillon n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kam qen\u00eb shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl kur shihja v\u00ebllan\u00eb tim t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqej t\u00eb komunikonte ndryshe. Nxirrte tinguj, p\u00ebrdorte gjeste, k\u00ebrkonte p\u00ebrgjigje pa fjal\u00eb. M\u00eb dukej nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht e \u00e7uditshme dhe magjeps\u00ebse. Sidomos kur vinin miqt\u00eb e tij dhe, n\u00eb nj\u00eb heshtje t\u00eb plot\u00eb, shk\u00ebmbenin aq shum\u00eb informacion sa q\u00eb p\u00ebr mua ishte e pabesueshme. Si mund t\u00eb flitej kaq shum\u00eb pa z\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"56\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rorostories.blog\/en\/2026\/01\/21\/kur-heshtja-u-be-gjuha-ime-e-pare\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?fit=1600%2C1200&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1600,1200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?fit=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-56\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?resize=1536%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/img-20240927-wa00393703268644130153225.jpg?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Nj\u00eb foto familjare gjat\u00eb aktivitetit dedikuar &#8220;Jav\u00ebs Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Personave q\u00eb Nuk D\u00ebgjojn\u00eb&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nj\u00eb incident q\u00eb ndryshoi gjith\u00e7ka<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Me kalimin e viteve, m\u00ebsova arsyen pse v\u00ebllai im nuk d\u00ebgjonte. Nj\u00eb histori q\u00eb p\u00ebr familjen time mbetet ende nj\u00eb plag\u00eb e hapur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ishte viti <strong>1985<\/strong>. Shqip\u00ebria ishte n\u00ebn regjimin komunist. V\u00ebllai im ishte vet\u00ebm dy vje\u00e7 e gjysm\u00eb kur, n\u00eb ambientin e \u00e7erdhes, ndodhi incidenti q\u00eb do t\u2019i ndryshonte jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb orarit t\u00eb gjumit, n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment shkujdesjeje, ai rr\u00ebzohet dhe goditet r\u00ebnd\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U d\u00ebrgua menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb spital. Ajo q\u00eb e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb histori edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb dhimbshme \u00ebsht\u00eb fakti se mamaja ime punonte n\u00eb at\u00eb spital, por askush nuk e njoftoi. Ajo e mori vesh \u00e7far\u00eb kishte ndodhur pas <strong>9 or\u00ebsh<\/strong>, kur pa djalin e saj pa ndjenja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb mes t\u00eb frik\u00ebs dhe kaosit, mjek\u00ebt gabimisht i injektuan nj\u00eb antibiotik q\u00eb \u00e7oi n\u00eb <strong>shurdhim total<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb, nj\u00eb dhimbje, nj\u00eb forc\u00eb e panjohur<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mamaja ime tregon shpesh se v\u00ebllai im kishte qen\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb fliste dhe ecte her\u00ebt. N\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, gjith\u00e7ka u k\u00ebput. P\u00ebr t\u00eb, nisi nj\u00eb bot\u00eb e re, e panjohur. P\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn time nisi nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb e gjat\u00eb dhimbjeje, mohimi dhe sfidash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u00ebzimi i m\u00ebm\u00ebsis\u00eb u z\u00ebvend\u00ebsua nga nj\u00eb forc\u00eb q\u00eb ajo nuk e dinte se e kishte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Hapat e mi t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb Gjuh\u00ebn e Shenjave<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mes meje dhe v\u00ebllait tim ka <strong>dhjet\u00eb vite diferenc\u00eb<\/strong>. Deri n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb, motra jon\u00eb e madhe ishte ajo q\u00eb e kuptonte m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe i q\u00ebndronte pran\u00eb. Un\u00eb isha vet\u00ebm <strong>9 vje\u00e7<\/strong> kur p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb m\u00ebsova t\u00eb g\u00ebrm\u00ebzoja emrin tim n\u00eb Gjuh\u00ebn e Shenjave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ishte vet\u00eb ai q\u00eb m\u00eb ftoi t\u00eb zbuloja m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn dhe kultur\u00ebn e personave q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai kishte nisur pun\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb organizat\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr komunitetin. M\u00eb ftonte \u2013 shpesh me \u201cdetyrim\u201d \u2013 t\u00eb ndiqja konferenca dhe aktivitete. N\u00eb fillim nuk kuptoja asgj\u00eb dhe largohesha shpejt. Por me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, k\u00ebto takime u b\u00ebn\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs sime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Heshtja q\u00eb m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi t\u00eb kuptoj veten<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aty fillova t\u00eb kuptoja jo vet\u00ebm m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb komunikimit, por edhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn sesi ata e shihnin bot\u00ebn. Kjo p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb ndikoi thell\u00eb n\u00eb perceptimin tim p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Heshtja e tyre m\u00eb ndihmoi t\u00eb kuptoja se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thoshte t\u00eb ishe introvert. T\u00eb flisje m\u00eb shum\u00eb me mendime sesa me z\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nga v\u00ebzhguese, n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb vitin <strong>2023<\/strong>, fillova kursin e interpretimit. Nuk ishte e leht\u00eb. Trajner\u00ebt e mi ishin pjes\u00eb e komunitetit q\u00eb un\u00eb e njihja prej vitesh, por tani roli im kishte ndryshuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nga v\u00ebzhguese, u b\u00ebra p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">U p\u00ebrballa me paragjykime, me presion dhe me kritika. Shpesh shihesha si \u201cajo q\u00eb i ka gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb lehta\u201d, vet\u00ebm sepse isha motra e drejtuesit t\u00eb organizat\u00ebs. N\u00eb realitet, ishte e kund\u00ebrta. Gabimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve shpesh r\u00ebndonin mbi mua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nj\u00eb profesion q\u00eb nuk ishte kurr\u00eb vet\u00ebm pun\u00eb<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kam b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe pun\u00eb t\u00eb papaguar, sepse ndihma ndaj k\u00ebtij komuniteti nuk ka qen\u00eb kurr\u00eb thjesht detyr\u00eb. Ka qen\u00eb zgjedhje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00ebr mua, interpretimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm profesion. \u00cbsht\u00eb vazhdim i nj\u00eb historie personale, i nj\u00eb dhimbjeje familjare dhe i nj\u00eb misioni q\u00eb fati ma dha shum\u00eb her\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sot, \u00e7do shenj\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrkthej, \u00e7do heshtje q\u00eb b\u00ebhet z\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb kuptim gjith\u00eb asaj rruge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"583\" data-attachment-id=\"53\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/rorostories.blog\/en\/2026\/01\/21\/kur-heshtja-u-be-gjuha-ime-e-pare\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366.jpg?fit=1080%2C615&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1080,615\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366.jpg?fit=1024%2C583&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366.jpg?resize=1024%2C583&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-53\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366.jpg?resize=1024%2C583&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366.jpg?resize=300%2C171&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366.jpg?resize=768%2C437&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rorostories.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/fb_img_17691144280646417347418759755366.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Gjat\u00eb kursit t\u00eb Interpretimit pran\u00eb zyrave t\u00eb ANAD<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga nj\u00eb histori familjare, n\u00eb nj\u00eb mision jet\u00ebsor dhe profesional Kur fati nuk t\u00eb pyet, por t\u00eb zgjedh Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, fati nuk t\u00eb pyet se \u00e7far\u00eb do. Ai thjesht t\u00eb vendos p\u00ebrball\u00eb rrethanave q\u00eb, pa e kuptuar, t\u00eb japin nj\u00eb mision. 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